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Down And Out: ‘Will Trade For Diapers And Milk’

The mother of two teenagers and two adult children said she was in Lake Elsinore from Hemet to avoid embarrassing her kids.

A Hemet woman who says she is in a desperate financial situation resorted to trading toys for milk and diapers Wednesday morning in Lake Elsinore. 

Standing on the corner of Central and Cambern avenues, a woman who asked to only be identified as “Rhonda” surrounded herself with dolls and small stuffed animals. Holding a sign that read, "Trade toys for diapers, food & milk," woman said she is doing the best she can to make ends meet.

“I don’t have any money,” she said.

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The mother of two teenagers and two adult children said she was in Lake Elsinore from Hemet to avoid embarrassing her kids.

“They hate that I do this,” she admitted, pointing to her late model gold Saturn sedan that appeared to have a rear door taped on.

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Rhonda shares a rental house with her teens and one adult daughter, along with the daughter’s boyfriend and their baby. Rhonda said she receives $590 in monthly welfare benefits and she doesn’t have a job. Her husband left her for another woman and she hasn’t heard from him, she said.

“Nobody wants to employ me,” she continued. “I’m missing teeth, I have a felony record.”

She admits to drug abuse, but said she’s been clean for three years. She also confessed to a past history of prostitution and shoplifting.

Her gig on the Lake Elsinore street corner Wednesday was learned: Her mom did it before she died. 

She told her kids, “I have to try what Grandma did.”


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